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• Just started talking to my ex after 3 years of not talking. posted (2 weeks) ago
  i am not sure if this is a good or bad thing i admit i do miss her from time to time but has to much…

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• (1 vote) My girlfriend recently started talking with her ex again.
  

  [quote Anonymous]lol I don’t think you should be worried whether you should or should not be bothered by this. You clearly stated that you are bothered by this. Don’t worry about what you think you “should” be bothered by.
  
  You’re bothered by it. You get a weird feeling that something might happen and she’ll choose him over yourself. You said that she said that she loves you and wants to be with you, trust that. I think you are most bothered by the fact that she gets along so well with him, you feel threatened. Just let her know how you feel about it but DO NOT try and ask her to not see, talk, to him etc. Just reinforce how much you care for her and treat her like a queen.
  
  If she wants to be with you, she’ll be with you. Try to ignore the ex. If you feel suspicious of something, then just ask (in a non accusatory way). I’m not going to lie, she may still have feelings for him, but just ask her. If there are any doubts, then there are doubts. If she want’s to be with him, then that’s what will be. But, honestly you are probably just being paranoid. They are probably just friends and you shouldn’t be bothered. Just make sure you have good communcation about it.[/quote]
  
  i like what this guy has to say but i am going to put in my 2 cents in my past i was a very jealous guy and i will admit that i am still a bit but i being single now for sometime now i had time to look back on somethings so i do not think that you being bothered by this is a bad thing but dont dwell on this cause you are only hurting youself in the long run if this dose not work out and she go’s back to him.NOT saying that she will but i see women like this now if she loves me then she will be there and if she dont then why am i hurting my self more by worring about it.when it is all said and done i was the one who walked out with my head high cause i was not the one who left i gave it my best and that all i can do. plus if you do your best and she go’s back to this guy who broke her heart once then you won because she walked out on a good thing. so keep you head up :)
  
  - written 2 weeks, 3 days ago – voted for by gecko15

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• Just started talking to my ex after 3 years of not talking.
  

  well i am going to take this all in but i would love a woman’s view on this one, just to hear both sides.
  - written 2 weeks ago

• Just started talking to my ex after 3 years of not talking.
  

  well we broke up cause she went off to collage and she said that she wanted to be on her own. it was a hard break up for me cause i was having some hard times in my life at the time with deaths in the family and losing her was really hard at the time. i am glad i had my friends to help me get back on my feet.
  - written 2 weeks ago

• Just started talking to my ex after 3 years of not talking.
  

  well we were in high school last time we were dating so i am not sure on this one but i do like talking to her after all these years.
  - written 2 weeks ago

• I’m just so exhausted…
  

  keep you head up, i know life is hard and i feel like you do sometimes, but we got to keep on pushing i really belive that there is a great prize for thos who just keep going even if its not a the best pace for other in the world. but i do understand you buddy and if i feel this way then you really are not alone cause we are all working to better are self, and if you really are at the bottom the look at it this way the only way is up from here. stay the course:)
  - written 2 weeks, 3 days ago

• Removed.
  

  not sure what you failed at but i must say that i like when you said “anger is just sadness in a box” i must say that i will keep that in mind for a long time.
  - written 2 weeks, 3 days ago

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