Fantasy is a wonderful way to improve sexual arousal. Your mind can take you to wonderful places with endless erotic possibilities. Both men and women can benefit from using fantasy during sex - if you've never tried it, you're missing out.
Plot lines FANTASIES are limited only by the imagination. The variety of erotic storylines is almost endless.
Many have a favourite fantasy that gives them pleasure through life, while others change their fantasies regularly and incorporate real-life events and people they have met.
Fantasies often get their power from their extreme content. They contain images the individual would never want to experience in real life and the thoughts conjure up feelings of guilt of fear. This charge of emotion gets transformed into powerful sexual excitement.
Men v women RESEARCH suggests half of women fantasise while making love to their husband, and most are dreaming about sex with another man.
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And men are the same - often thinking of other women. But this shouldn't be a source of guilt or seen as infidelity. Remember, fantasy is only in the mind. Inspiration PEOPLE fuel their fantasies from a variety of sources. They may get their images from pornography, from reading erotic literature or from day dreaming about a man they met on the bus.
The amount you fantasise isn't an indicator of how good or bad your sex life is. In fact, people with healthy sex lives have been shown to fantasize more because they are inspired by their lover.
Feeling it for real FANTASY is amazing and it's well worth exploring the sex life in your head. You can even go further and try to act out a fantasy with a lover.
It's a great way to spice up your sex life but try not to be too disappointed if reality falls short of your day dreams.
